My
nephew has become my "study subject" in that so much of what we study
and discuss when talking about adolescent education I tend to tie back to him
and his experiences in school. Like many adolescents, he has had successes and
failures. I know that most people brag about the intelligence of their family,
but he is also one of the smartest 13 year-olds I know-sometimes to his
discredit. Regardless of the fact that
he is family, I utilized him and his experiences both in and out of school as
the subject of the interview in this module.
His statement and what I learned was at parts surprising as well as what
one may assume.
When
I asked him how much time he thought he spent daily utilizing modern media, he ball
parked it at 1-2 hours. When I questioned that, I mentioned you have to
consider all the time you spend on the internet, gaming, your phone, texting,
checking messages, and social sites-everything, he thought long and hard about
that and decided it was probably closer to 3 or 4 hours every day, maybe
more. Between classes, after school,
evenings, waiting after extracurricular activities, he always had a connection
to others, and was always using it when he reflected a bit more on it.
He
directly stated that he communicates with his friends regularly via text. When I was growing up, we used to write notes
among friends, and pass them in the hall or in classes. Today, this has evolved to teenagers having
phones of their own and texting to each other both in and outside of
class. Very little communication is done
by calling a friend anymore. Hanging out
is now a text, asking each other what is up or want to hang out; it is not
calling to see if you want to come over.
Digital
media seems to be a part of his life in so many ways-from availability of
homework assignments online, to re-cap of lesson plans, to sports schedules and
safety communications, media has started to govern his life. In
school, teachers are using the internet to make their lessons and assignment
readily available to the students, as well as due dates and areas to communicate
with the teachers. Both students and
parents have the ability to go online and track the progress of their children
in specific classes, no longer having to wait for the mid marking period
reports, or until notification is made to a parent for ongoing issues. In addition to reporting, activities involving
the internet, blogs, writing activities, and publishing to sites is readily available
to students. Some of the students dislike
this, as they feel their every move is being watched, but at the same token,
they use it as a tool to gauge their own progress, and address their work
accordingly.
While he certainly does use it for
entertainment, but he also uses media for reference. It isn’t all about games and fun, it is about
informing and being informed. From the school related tasks to the social part
of it, it has become the best way to inform of cancellation, get feedback from
friends (sometimes family too). While he
is not much of an official blogger, commenting with his friends and actively
posting assignments while creating dialogues in learning forums are
requirements.
It's interesting how generations view calling versus texting. At a conference a few weeks back, I and a few others discussed phone calls between parents and children; they were the parents, and I was the 'child'. Essentially, the parents were saying that they wished their college aged children would call them more often, or even better answer the phone when they called; we all find it odd when we call, and no one answers, but send a text and get a reply in under 1 minute. For myself, as a student/child, I explained, that I never wanted to hear the 'nagging' that comes from parents because they are parents (ie, wearing clean underwear?). It's easier to skip parental questions/nagging in a text and just reply with "I'm okay" or "Everything is going great!"
ReplyDeleteI wonder though, while we've all seen teens hanging out at the mall on their phones in groups, how much of that time on the phone is really spent texting people that are already in the group? Just from what I've seen in the high school cafeteria, the technology acts more as spring boards for topics of discussion.
Bridget,
ReplyDeleteNice interview and report. Your nephew seems to have a good balance in how he utilizes the different technologies.